Those moments… the ones you want to capture and cherish forever. The times you never want to forget. The moments in your life that make it worth living. Let’s talk about time. And how I try to keep it.
As a mother I wear many different hats; most mothers do. And each day I am given 24 hours to make the most of my time. The challenge of ensuring I get everything done I need to is daunting, to say the least. Plus I do not want all of my moments in time to be spent on chores, errands and to-do lists….
This past weekend I was able to catch up with one of my most favorite people- it had been many months since I talked to her and even more since I had seen her. We chatted about her new favorite songs (I haven’t had a radio for 17 months so this was important for both of us), she filled me in on her new hobbies, she updated me on some of her friends and we ate donuts- her chocolate and me blueberry.
She, yet again, reminded me just how important the power of organic connections are- sometimes there are people with whom you just “click” with and you share an unexplained special bond with- she is this girl for me. She reminded me that the innocence of youth is not lost and that spending time talking and listening to one another are two of the most important aspects of humanity that are so often overlooked. Oh, did I mention she is 6 years old. That’s right- I spent my Sat morning with an intelligent, emotional, insightful 6 year old girl whom I have loved since she was born. There are some people who bring out the very best in you and this little lady always dose (if that isn’t a testament to how wonderful her mama is- not sure what is).
J O G G E R S.... love them. Wear them all the time. The exact pair is from Zara but I have linked <similar> ones. The comfort factor of these babies are through the roof yet they still look more classy than sweatpants. I love to pair them with flowy tops like this baby and really re-create the pajama feeling that is acceptable to wear outside. I love the elastic bottom on these and I love the side detail- helps to really make sure people know I am not, in fact, wearing pajamas. These joggers are perfect with a cute utility jacket or even a chunky sweater on those colder days. I have been pairing this drapey top with just about everything and it is prefect for everyday. It comes in a variety of colors but you know me- I love my grays and neutrals. Since I have been back in Colorado I have paired this top with both a puffy vest and an oversized cardigan and I have only been back 9 days. Seriously, the possibilities and versatility of both the joggers and the top are endless!!!
The bag is a given as it is perfectly paired with anything and is the best color for all seasons. I keep my life in it as it is fairy large and I simply love the structured aspect. I have been on a new bag hunt so any suggestions are welcomed!!! Not sure exactly what I want so anything you guys are loving let me know! When I got home I went through some tubs we had in storage and I have found a few oldies I may bring into the rotation- that could be a fun post- how to reuse your favorite items for last season… what do you think?!?
My Donut Date:
This little lady asked me about my life abroad- she was very curious if I had seen any Princesses while living in London and I had to, unfortunately, tell that I had not. Despite the let down of no Princess spotting she was genuinely interested in my life- what sorts of things I did, what Declan liked there, how things were different… she was as selfless as a 6 year old can be and this enduring quality is something I continue to strive for in my own life. This sweet gal and I have had a special bond since she was born as I was immediately drawn to her innate emotional abilities- she is sweet, caring, inquisitive and passionate- essentially she is all the things I continue to strive to master in my own emotional life.
Seeking out and surrounding myself with people who have qualities that I hope to posses myself is one of the many ways I am learning to make new friends. People who challenge me to become a better person, to consider living life a bit more fuller and to find the positive in all is my main goal upon moving back (well, other than getting settled and going to Target!). And while my Saturday morning donut date was not with a new friend it was a breath of fresh air in my ever growing quest to work on myself- it was a reminder that a little empathy and compassion can go a long way. Thanks Bizzy, for putting me back in check.
Just in case you have been hiding under a rock I am here to tell you it is now 2017.
Another year has come and gone. A new year awaits. So… now what??? I have traveled around the sun many times and I have been in this position of anxious wonder many times so why does this year feel different? Why does this coming year seem bigger- why does it seem more important- why do I feel such a sense of urgency to dive into 2017??
As I unpack these emotions I am finding that I am standing at a very abrupt crossroads. A new year is supposed to elicit emotions about rejuvenation, second chances and opportunities. And while I am feeling those things I am also feeling a sense of lose, undesired closure and anxiety. For the first time in many years I am torn about which road to travel and which emotions to embrace. An obvious choice would be the path of optimism but is it fair to discount the other feelings that seem to be filling my mind.
It is no wonder as to why I am feeling these things- I have not been very silent about our big move back to Colorado and with that brings a lot of emotion- this crossroads, where I stand, is the culmination place for all my worries, excitement, anxiety, happiness and fear about moving home.
Easy. Casual. Comfortable. The best aspects of this outfit: no corssroad there! This top is MONEY (and currently only $12). I had been on the hunt for something in this style and tired on plenty of options but none of them fit like this one. It is soft and comfortable- and I love the sleeve length. Wear itwith jeans, cords, skirts, athlesuire pants, leggings- anything! No wardrobe is complete without a gray knit scarf and once again Zara came through for me. As there are certainly not a shortage of chunky knit scarves I have linked a few for ease of shopping <similar> <similar>. Adding a plain scarf to any outfit really completes the look (and adds warmth). Thesedistressed denim are an old favorite from my favorite Denver boutique Hailee Gracehowever I have linked several similar <here> <here>. I went with a lighter wash to break up the dark shirt and denim and as is it super casual the major distressing keeps with that look. You all should recognize these trainers and should be no surprise they are camo. I love all things camo. These exact trainers are currently sold out- sorry friends!! I really try to post current and available products but it can not always be done #bloggerproblems
So this is my new B A G. Santa was good to me this year and I am simply in love with it! The color is perfect for any season and will transition well into spring/summer. It is structured which is a change for me but I am committed to not shoving itfull of toddler gear (although that has already happened). It has, already, proven to be extremely versatile- can wear it for daytime or evening for a more dressed up look. LOVE LOVE LOVE it.
Back to my crossroad dilemma. As I thought more about it I want to embark of the road of progression and positive change but in order to do that I must validate where I am coming from. Meaning, I must acknowledge and process these feelings of anxiety and forced change before I can move on. In doing so I am able to come to terms with where I am in life, let it go and confidently choose the path of opportunities. Friends, I am sad about leaving London and in order to move past them I need to recognize and accept this… so I am doing that now. And then I will be ready to take that path of new chances, new optimism and new challenges. Meet me there… I will be there soon!
With Love,
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