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  • Everyday Fashion

    All Laced Up: Keeping Secrets

    Recently I was asked to keep a very big secret for someone.  At the time I did not think much of it…  I mean as girls we tell each other secrets all the time, right?!?  But how often do we actually keep those secrets?? Reflecting back on this question I realized I have been a terrible secret keeper and what does that say about my character??? YIKES.  I want people to feel comfortable coming to me.  I want my friends to not only trust me but to believe my word. If I am asked to keep a secret the person sharing should feel confident I will keep that secret and until recently I am not sure I would have kept their secrets safe.

    Photos: Zoe Griffin

    shop the look: denim // sweater // booties // bag <similar>//

    Like being laced up in this amazing soft and cozy sweater I am turning over a leaf of being laced up with my lips!  This sweater is incredibly soft and the prefect sweater to add to your winter wardrobe.  It is cozy, comfy and easy to pair with denim or trousers.  If you have not seen the lace-up trend then maybe you have been living under a rock- love it! I paired it with these classic skinnies from J.Crew and currently they are on sale for under $100 (use code HOLIDAY for up to 40% off).  They come in several other washes and I have my eyes on the darker wash- very classic and clean.   Keeping with the simple theme these booties are a must have and so incredible comfortable- I walk a lot and these babies never fail my feet!  No need to settle on style for comfort.  I love the gray color as a change from my usual black or tan.  Such a basic pieces that will fit perfectly into your winter wardrobe (dare I say the “W” word)!  Winter is in full swing here and this easy lace up sweater, denim and booties will be on repeat throughout the coming winter days.

    Secrets create a dynamic to a friendship that elevates  it from surface to substantial.  The fact that my friend trusted me with this piece of information reminds me that she respects me, she cherishes me and believes my word. I intent to keep this secret to prove to her (and myself) that I am all of those things she sees in me.  When I tell someone a secret it is often times because I am overwhelmed with emotion and just need a little help… I need someone else to hold on to that piece of information until I am ready to process it.  I need that person to keep it safe- to keep is sacred.  I will be back for it.. just as soon as I am ready.  I know, in my heart, that is what happened with my friend.  She needed a safe place to store her thoughts, a shelter for her emotions and a keeper of her secrets.  They are not mine to share.  It is taken some serious heartache in my life to fully understand that just because I hold a piece of information does not give me the privilege to share it.

    Lace it up.  My lips are sealed!

    So friends…make sure you keep those thoughts and emotions safe for those around you.  Be the person someone cherishes and trust- I certainly continue to strive to be that person.  Each day finding new comfort in being a secrete keeper… really makes you feel special.

    With Love,

    ajm

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  • Everyday Fashion

    Giving Thanks: A Quick List

    So… I struggled with this post NOT because I am not thankful or that I do not have so many things to be thankful for but because I am not sure simple words can express just how thankful I am this year.

    In a Nutshell:

    I am ever thankful for Brendan.  Declan is the most precious gift I could have and everyday I am thankful I get to raise this little human  My parents- duh! My in-laws (parents and sisters).  My family in Colorado. My friends.  Living in London.  Getting to write a blog and share my life with you.

    Photos: Victoria Metaxas

    shop the look: denim // top // jacket // booties // bag // sunglasses

     

    The lighter side of this post is obviously this adorable outfit… I am also very thankful for comfy, cute clothes! New amazing denim alert… another great find from H & M!  The distressed and patched nature of these add just enough flare but keep them pretty neutral.  I am thankful for J.Crew.  And even more for this tuxedo inspired top. You needed this in your closet yesterday but now you can get it here and use code ‘FESTIVE’ at checkout.  Alright friends, it is winter in London and therefore I have not left the house without this essential faux fur hooded jacket in days.  Seriously, it is not only adorable but it is warm. I have linked several others <here> and <here> so you have options. As the holidays are sneaking up (see my perfect holiday dress here) I can not recommend this tote enough… it is perfect for everyday and it literally accompanies me almost everywhere.  Booties are a season old but I have included several of my other favorites <here> and <here>.

    As I reflect on what I am truly the most thankful for I am left with a list of people.  There are so many people who continuously inspire me, who continue to push me, who love me, who support me, who make me tear up with laughter and who make me forever thankful.  The reality is that I am so incredibly lucky to live the life I do.  To spend my days exploring London, writing and styling Pish to Posh, traveling with my family and connecting with people is truly a gift I cherish everyday.

    The List:

    My husband- without hesitation- is the most influential person in my life and I am absolutely indebted to his love.  Thank you  Brendan.

    My son has thrived in London.  He has developed a British accent and I quickly went from “mama” to “mummy” and I could not be more thankful.  He loves his life here,  he is happy, he is inquisitive, he is curious and he is funny.  Thank you Declan.

    The two who gave me life are simply unbelievable.  The endless support- all the way from Denver- the endless love and the endless humor they provide in my life is un-matchable.  Thank you Mom and Daddy.

    Marriage is about the joining of two families… I am lucky to have the most amazing family gifted to me through marriage.  They are honest, opinionated, trustworthy, loving and humorous.  Thank you Maxwell’s.

    Not only do I have great in-laws but I also have the best family in Denver.  They keep me grounded, they love my dog, they help me with all things computer and they simply adore my son.  Thank you Fry’s.

    A friendship that withstood college, children and a move across the world is almost unheard of but I am lucky enough to have it.  Thank you April.

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    There is certainly no way to express or to include every single person who I am thankful for- that would be the longest post ever as I truly have so many to thank.

    This Thanksgiving I hope you find yourself surrounded by people who inspire you, support you, love you and make you happy.  This year Thanksgiving will be a small affair with one great friend joining us (British do not celebrate… I mean…..).  We will raise a glass in cheers for all that we are thankful for….

    Thank you for stopping by and reading… thank you for indulging me in my endeavor! Forever grateful.

    With Love and Thanks,

    ajm

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