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    Fitness: Barre3 Reflections

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    Let’s Get Physical!

    Who doesn’t want a bangin’ body? Who doesn’t want a clear mind and happy life?

    This day in age we are bombarded with so many images and visuals of the perfect body. Take a scroll through Instagram or Facebook and I think you will understand what I am saying. But this post is NOT about how to achieve that. It is NOT about how to achieve the perfect physical look. It is NOT about how to loose weight.

    What this post is about is the importance of starting with the idea that you are enough and your physical appearance is only one part of you.

    Just before the New Year I was asked by the studio owner of my local Barre3 studio if I would participate in their upcoming January challenge. I had been taking classes at her studio off and on for a little over a year. Essentially, before she could finish her request, I had bought all new workout clothes and was ready to take the challenge head on.

    I was beyond flattered for the opportunity to be included but I was so nervous. I had to participate in multiple Barre3 classes a week, commit to daily meditation and then reflect. I just wanted to get a firm butt!! Ha.

    What I learned in the four week challenge about myself and about my strength was shocking and a little bit overwhelming. Yes, I participated in multiple classes a week and yes I (tried) to do daily meditation. But the real power and strength came from the reflection. And the belief that I was enough. That what I brought into the studio each day was enough. It was not about more more more… more weight loss, more endurance, more perfection… it was about being enough and focusing on the core aspects of what makes me strong from within.

    As a mother, as a mother who has a son with sensory needs and as a wife of a consultant I need a place where I can go and take care of myself. I found this at Barre3. Finding a place where I loved the workout, loved the community and felt rejuvenated and uplifted when I left was amazing. But Barre3 is not just about the workout. Now, do not get my wrong… it is hard. Your heart beat rises, your muscles burn and there is a lot of sweat. But in conjunction with Headspace I was able to focus on my mind as well.

    The Barre3 Piece

    I LOVE IT. Like honestly, truly, seriously. Even after the official challenge has ended I find myself craving to be at the studio and take a class (which I continue to do). Like I mentioned I wanted to just get a tight butt!! And while there is still progress to be made I am seeing a physical change in my body. The structure of the class is such that leaves you wanting more but feeling completely satisfied and sweaty. They have a formula of large range movements, small movement burnout and postural holds that I have not found in any other workout.

    All About The Workout

    Within each workout I get my hear rate up and blood pumping. My legs/arms/abs quiver. And my isometric strength is tested. I LOVE IT. All of it. With a consistent and committed routine REAL changes happen. My arms are more toned, my legs are stronger and my back has never felt better. For many of you who have been following me for a while you know I have had some serious back problems. Barre3 has been one of the best things that happened to my back. Pain is gone. Mobility is back.

    All About The Breath

    Not only does this fitness class offer a physical component but each class ends with dedicated breath work. It is a time to focus and be present for yourself. It has been in this time where I have felt the true community and connection of the Barre3 practice. I am in love with my home studio and the amazing instructors who share their passion. This dedicated breath work is when these women impact my life the most. With their words of encouragement, guidance and inspiration. It truly is an uplifting community and special place to be.

    The Meditation Piece

    Over the course of the month I began to see a direct correlation between my meditation and my workouts. Whether it be through the use of my breath or the work of quieting my mind it became a TOTAL body workout. So often we, as humans, forget that a total body workout should include our minds. As I have mentioned in the past I started mediating about six months ago and it has changed my life. Really focusing on deepening and bringing that practice into my physical workout began to take shape during this challenge.

    In full transparency Headspace is not my favorite meditation app. It took me a while to get used to the narrators voice in Headspace. BUT I did really connect with several of the daily meditation guides including one about quieting mental noise and another one on accepting challenging times. Both resonated with me as they were very applicable to aspects in my daily life.

    As a mother the ability to quiet mental noise is a hard feat; what with all the lists, errands, lunches, laundry, school, homework, activities, date nights, birthday parties and such to plan and execute. But the more I attended Barre3 class and focused on my meditation I was able to find moments in my day where I could quiet the noise and be present. During those times I could see my life a little more clearly… and I am able to make changes for the better.

    So, What’s The Catch?

    In this case there isn’t one. My fitness journey has been documented on my Instagram and here on the blog and I promise this has been an incredible experience. I continue to attend class at my home studio any Denver ladies wanna meet me there?? And I continue to grow, get stronger and be more intentional and HAPPY in my life. Like any workout routine it takes commitment and perseverance but knowing that I am enough no matter where I am when I enter the studio makes it all worth it.

    With Love,

  • Self Care For Moms, Wednesday Wellness

    Wellness Wednesday: You Have To Take Care Of Yourself

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    I am a firm believer that in order to take care of them (your children, your spouse, your family) you need to take care of yourself. Plan and simple. You are a better mother, daughter, employee, wife and friend when you treat yourself as a priority. As someone who struggled, for many years, to take care of herself I am speaking from experience. I am 100% a better mother, wife and human when I take time for myself.

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  • Real Life Ramblings, Self Care For Moms

    Early Morning Wake Up: Three Tips To Getting Up Earlier

    WAKE UP!

    There is this theory about how people who get up early are more successful in life.  In fact there are a so many studies about how the most profitable CEO’s wake up before the sun.  While I am no CEO I am a firm believer of the wake up early philosophy.   When I  wake up and get up I am 100% more successful than the days I sleep in a bit.  But it goes further than that.  When I wake up early I get to take care of myself, I am making myself a priority and I start the day in a calm state.

    And more importantly I can not take care of my family if I do not FIRST take care of myself.  This is something that I only recently felt the true impact of.  I had heard for years…. like on day two of being a mother that I must first take care of myself.  But until I was unable to take care of Declan and looked inward to find out why did I see the weight of that idea. I never really believed it.

    If you hear nothing else past this… TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF.

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    Three Tips To Wake Up Early

    1. Turn off the snooze function on your phone.  Do it now.  Pick up your phone and turn off the snooze function.  This has been the biggest impact on successfully being able to wake up earlier.  If I have no choice other than to turn of my alarm I am forced to get up.  Turning it off is too risky of a game.  So there is no snooze.  Turn it off now.  It has been proven and discussed in many articles
    2. Have something to look forward to when you wake up early.  For me it is meditation (which will be a whole other post).  Once you are up and awake set your schedule to include something you love.. maybe an extra cup of coffee, maybe time for journaling, maybe walk to dog or a yoga session.
    3. Go to bed early.  Plain and simple you need rest and sleep to be the best mom you can be.  Setting yourself up for success happens the night before when you put yourself to bed.  The laundry can be folded tomorrow, those toys can be picked up on the weekend and your phone needs to be put down.

    Some of you may say things like… I am tired and need to sleep or when I wake up early I get tired in the afternoon or (my favorite) I am not a morning person. Or I do not have the time or I can not afford to take care of myself.

    I CALL BS.  LET’S BE HONEST

    All of those things are excuses.  Plain and simple.  Maybe consider going to bed at a decent hour.  If you are tired in the afternoon it is likely more to do with your diet than you sleep.  And you can TRAIN yourself to be a morning person- but you have to want it.  Everything I mentioned is FREE.  And you need to make the time… MAKE it.  Time will not come to you- you have to find it.

    Two months ago as summer lingered on I was ready to feel better and more productive each day.  My parenting was in the sh**hole and those “dog days of summer” were sure impacting me; lazy, unmotivated and making a lot of excuses.  My son would wake up before me.  My husband would be up and I was just sleeping life away. I stayed up too late at night – I get it the sun was up later.  It was so easy to make excuse after excuse as to why being up early was not for me. Or why not taking care of myself was a priority.

    So I started reading articles on how to train myself to get up earlier.  Each article I read spoke to the need to make yourself a priority.  I started getting motivated and convinced this was the path for me.  So one Sunday night, in mid August, I set my Monday morning alarm for 5:30am. OH WOW.

    NO TURNING BACK NOW  wake up

    To this day that alarm is still set and each day I get up at 5:30 am.  Now, I am human and there have been a few days that I have hot snooze a few times.  And on weekends I give myself an extra hour.  But I can successfully say that 95% of the time I am up at 5:30.

    My days are more productive, I am a better mother and I am grounded.  Providing myself the time in the morning after I wake up to set myself up for success has been one of the best changes I made.  For myself and for my family.  As a mother our days are, often, filled with tasks and demands that are focused on others.  Parenting a child with SPD who needs constant attention is DEMANDING but that time I give myself in the morning allows me to ensure everyone is happy and healthy.

    The fact is that there are never enough hours in the day to accomplish every single thing on your to-do list and all to frequently self care is the last one to be prioritized.  Establishing a routine that includes waking up early can be the small shift you need to begin to focus on self care.  The quiet calm still mornings are amazingly grounding and surreal.

    I challenge you to join me tomorrow… I will be awake!

    With Love,

     

     

     

     

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  • Real Life Ramblings, Self Care For Moms

    Five Podcasts I’m Listening to Right Now

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    Happy Friday!  Can you believe how far into the year we are?!?  Like WOW.  One of the the goals I set for myself this year was to explore and listen to more podcasts.  So I wanted to share my Top 5.  
    SOME BACKGROUND 
    I was VERY late to the podcast scene.  Like just started listening to them in November.  For some reason the idea of podcasts seemed weird to me… I didn’t understand when people listened to them, why didn’t they just find a show to watch or read a book, what was the big hype about them all??  So many questions and when I am overwhelmed I shy away from things #workingonthat.  So it took me a long long time to start exploring podcasts and figure out which ones I liked.  As of today I have found dozens I love but there are certainly a hand full that I listen to daily/weekly.  

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  • Family Life, Real Life Ramblings, Self Care For Moms

    Mom Moments: Breaking Free From Guilt

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    Those moments.  The mom ones.  The ones you live for.  And then the ones that make you cringe. Those that you want to remember forever. Those you wish you could erase from your memory. But each one is a moment of time attached to your life. Each day I find myself encountering almost all of these emotions. Each day I experience the highs and lows of those moments.

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  • Real Life Ramblings, Self Care For Moms

    Book Roundup: Current Favorites, On The List + Daily Inspirational

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    Hey Loves!  Happy Thursday.  I am not sure about you but I am really ready for this weekend…. this week is dragging on for me.  Maybe it is all this back stuff and the uncertainty of whether I will be able to walk each day.  Believe me when I saw I know it could be a lot worse.  Each day I am thankful and give praise that the pain and uncomfortablenesss is as minimal as it is. 

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  • Real Life Ramblings, Self Care For Moms

    5 Great Planners to Help You Get Organized in 2018

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    So here we are in mid- January and I am just getting this post out… so it should be obvious I need a new planner!  Ha.  And in my quest to find one I came across so many good ones that I wanted to share my top 5 with you.  These all have many similar features but differ in a few ways.   For me, I love to write things down. I love to make lists and to create hand written memos.  So I was excited to find so many great planners that offer both organizational elements but areas for lists, thoughts and memos.

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